To Stop Or Continue?

I kinda feel that it is a waste to stop this website half way. I guess we are lacking of inspiration and motivation? Maybe we can do something to lift up our spirit again? Or maybe we just close this website and move on?

I think RMBP should make another meeting and discuss about this issue - either to continue or stop??

Miss you guys so much.

XOXO
curryegg

Public Affection

Public Affection

WARNING: The article below may contain highly unerotic materials which may offend certain minority. Do not read if you may find yourself unduely insulted for reading this.

Now that's what I call Monkey Love

Well, as usual, I give credits to people whom I read their blogs. Aaron Sim has never fail to amuse me with his... conventional relationship material which he picked up somewhere, I guess. (His credits go to Stephanie Eldred) And as the usual, with a lil' twist of fate, some sugar and spice, everything might turn up a bit nicer than before.

Public affection has been in store long before the time our parents was even born. So heck, don't expect me to go long-winded on the history, since I'm never good at it. Every people has an opinion of his/her own regarding public affections, whether if they are appropriate, or they are just mind-blowing actions.

I do agree that, in someplace, sometime ago, you and your significant other might value the opportunity to hold hands as an after-marriage act. Kissing is reserved for the first wedding night for fear of pregnancy, and hugging can only be done when the wife gives birth to the firstborn. Well, ancient, isn't it, given the lack of biological knowledge at that time? Perhaps, we could go to the other extreme where you make out with your lover everyday without fail, more than the number of meals you had each day. And yeah, premarital sex is no longer an option for these modern couples. It is a MUST, 3 times daily.

With such a wide range of difference, it is rather hard to strike the notch of balance.

Mathematically speaking, try for the 'mean', within 1 standard deviation, such that you'll be able to please at least 68% of the public population.

Medically speaking, avoid sexually transmitted diseases (STD's).

I've stumbled upon this COOL meter, which was kinda amusing, in fact:

Hands Holding - Cool meter 9/10

"Grabbing your girl’s or guy’s hand in public, whether to get him/her in the right direction or just to feel ‘attached’ is fine in any setting, well except those that I see on campus where a couple hold hands and walk in a distance of say .. 10 meters. Well it isn’t intimate enough to make people around you to feel uncomfortable but it’s nevertheless good enough to make your partner feel the status of ‘couple’."

YM's remark:
I find no reason to get him/her in the right direction or just to feel attached. This reason for dependency is unjustified. Your significant other is no blind man/lady. Well, unless you're steering your man from looking at the hot chick across the road or steering your lady from the mega sales. But that's another different story.

Hold because you feel like it, and release when your hands are bound to be busy, especially when you're on the road. Just because there aren't reports doesn't mean that it never causes accidents. Believe me, they do. The last thing you want to do is to harm your innocent backseat passengers.

Kissing - Cool meter 7/10 (within limits)

"“Hey there!”… and then you give a kiss is totally fine in standard relationships. Obviously not when you are in a professional environment and vary in situation. Keep it simple and brief in the public. Don’t get into all that continues tongue action and arse grabbing throughout the course. "

YM's remark:
A peck on the lips, cheeks or forehead is fine in public as you are on the go. Lips smacking in public? Save it for your wedding day or your farewell.

Tongue action should be left in private, since no one is going to love watching drooling sight of deep kissing. Watching a head in the mouth due to deep kissing is the last sight one might consider. Or not at all.

Do practise at home in front of the mirror if you intend to perform in public. The public appreciates good art, and also able to differentiate art from baboon love-making session. And remember to keep your hand off limits in public. You might be fined for straying into forbidden territories.

Love Declaration - Cool Meter - 1/10

"You are not reading a war and peace protocol in the UN meeting center. What you see in the movies and television is does not work as how it should be in real life. In Chinese movies, they go… “Ah Mei … Wo Ai Ni! ~ “yelling at the top of his lungs smack in the middle of a mall. (get the picture?) Nope you can’t do that. These 3 words are reserved in the most highly emotional moments and should remain private between the 2 of you. And it is done naturally and smoothly with no added introduction statement and further conclusion statement. It’s only within the earshot of your partner when you let loose the 3 words."

YM's remark:
Just like any declaration made, there isn't any fulfilled. You do not want to send the wrong message, do you? A simple assurance of "I Love You" in private would be short but sweet.Nothing fancy should be tried unless your significant other attempts at seeking public attention. There might be success when it is done at the right time, right place, and for the right occasion including on how did you do it. Just avoid shrieking your voice when you are shouting at the top of your lungs.Therefore, save yourself from such embarassment. Doing it in private would be less challenging and sweet to most guys/girls.

“Hey HunnyBunnySnukumWukum “- Cool Meter 1/10

"What happens at home stays at home. The last thing anyone needs to know is that your lady calls you her Hello Kitty and you calling her your little piggy. Even so the ’sweetheart’ and ‘baby’ and my favorite line ‘yes darling’, try to keep it a low usage when you are out with your friends. So calm yourself down and avoid calling your significant other ‘hotty’ or ’sexy’."

YM's remark: I must admit, sometimes it does make your hair stand if you're a bystander. Well, unless if that's your intention afterall. Such general name-calling might result in others responding to your "darling" call as well.

Hands in My Pocket” - Cool meter 4/10 (are you sure?)

"I have seen this sight a couple of times. Particularly around Central market and parks. During our high school days, walking around and putting your hand around her waist into her back pocket is a sign of your couple status. Then again, that was 5-10 years ago. Nowadays, I don’t think you would want to invade your girl’s space, it just… tacky and pathetic."

YM's remark:
I've seen this all the time, particularly among young adults rather than high school days. To me, it is more of convenience. It leaves your partner's hands free to tend to other matters, as in shopping, u lil' pervy. Again, it's a matter of choice of the individual. I do not find myself offended at all, if you ask me. Just don't start grabbing or you might find a mark on your face.


CONCLUSION:
Again, I would like stress that I was really amused by the COOL meter because it causes more confusion. Affection, is not meant for public, but for each other. Take a drama class if you crave for attention. Don't attempt to be cool and start making stupid moves just to impress others. Do not be bothered by the COOL meter, as love could not be judged by numbers. Affection is an art, and beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. No fret, my friend. Do whatever you fancy, but do be considerate and think of others as well.

THE END

I'm a MURDERER!!!!

OMG! It's true. I admit that i'm a murderer. I hope that YOU won't tell the cops or hand me over to them. I admit that what i did was wrong. You know, people keep messing up in life,by doing something stupid,by buying things they do not use, i also did something stupid,by committing MURDER!!

I'm so scared right now. I'm being paranoid. I look out the window every 5 minutes. I only pick up the phone after it rang for 2 minutes. I don't go out. I haven't talked to anyone. Everytime i see a patrol car passing by, my heart stopped and i would jump and hide, even in the longkang. I just blog about what i've done. Nobody knows yet about the murder. Why I tell this on my blog? Just because,NONE of you know me.

I'm a murderer. I took a life away. I cut a life short. What do i have to do now?! I killed a SNAIL. A young one. A baby snail. Crushed, under my cheap ASADI sandal. Lifeless,dead,crushed,splatted,slimed under my sandal.

I'm sorry for the parents of the snail. I hope you can forgive me. In case you wanna press charges, don't. It's not my fault. It's your son..(err..youngling??).

GnomeFan

How to Kill Friends

Time to discuss on how are the possible ways to kill your friends or bloggers. It’s time for “monster kill”, you should know this term if you play D.O.T.A.

1. Phone call

No doubt SMS is very much cheaper than a phone call yet there are times when SMS (text) cannot take the place of a phone call. I believe most of you know what SMS (text) means; it is an acronym for short text messages. At times of urgency I really hate those who insist to talk over a matter via text just because they wanted to save some on call rates.I know a few friends who when needed my help very much texted me to request for some assistance.

Take for instance, there was this friend of mine who once texted me to request me to give him a ride from the bus station to our University at the time of arrival. I had received neither prior notice nor do I had any idea he was going to arrive on that day. His text sounded very much like a demand so I decided not to give him a ride though I was free at that moment. If he would give me just a call to ask whether I was free to give a ride in a polite manner, I will most likely consider his request even though I may be busy. Okay, you might say I would behave differently if that person was a lady. Mind you, my answer will still be a “no”. No matter what, the beauty of our voice cannot be replaced by pictures or words. Do remember that. Not many people can interpret our feelings via texts but most people will be able to tell from our voice.

Principle #1: When urgent, give a call; other than that, SMS will do.

2. Blog

Blogs were not that common back then. Among my graduated friends I am one of the earliest to blog, correct me if I am wrong. But today, more and more people maintain their own blogs. Blogs have been an item of today and something most people own. It’s a place where people express their opinions or bloat out their feelings or simply just to inform others their current state of life.

Most bloggers draw motivation through comments leaved by their peers or friends, while some on the traffic they got, while some from online advertisements. One fact which we human cannot escape from is the human touch. Individuals might have different reasons as to why they blog, but the most important thing we human seek for is to receive attention from others. Most of the time, you will kill your friends off when you had not been visiting their blogs for ages or had not posted any comments on their blogs. At least, that is what I think. Am I right?

Principle #2: Give and take when it comes to blogging. Post and receive comments to let others know you care for them.

3. Internet social network

Internet social network services have been growing like mushrooms lately. I myself joined friendster and facebook. I see them as a great way to track my friends’ birthdays and updates. I created my homepage and included all those relevant information which I in my humble opinion can be shared. The most I could leak out is my IM (i.e. Windows Live Messenger) ID and email, other than that other means to contact me will not be shared online.

Internet social network is a way for us to make new friends and to keep in touch with old buddies. The heck is, there appears to be some unknown fellas who came out of nowhere and insisted to add me even though I do not know them. There were many occasions when I received an “Add New Friend Request” from someone I do not know. Most of the time I will approve the request if the fella meets two simple criteria: firstly, we have met each other; secondly, for those who I have not met he/she gave a brief introduction about themselves.

Simple as that, but most people failed to provide such courtesy. The last time I did a spring cleaning to my friendster account was one year ago. What I did was I deleted all those comments with distracting sound/music. Now, I am thinking of performing a spring cleaning by deleting some of the contacts who either had not been active or those who are just passer-bys. Okay, you may think that I am a cruel person. The thing is, how am I supposed to keep track of my 422 friends in my account? It is not that each and every one of them is alive.

Principle #3: Remember to introduce yourself if you would like to make friend with someone.

That's all for today. A dormant of two weeks time is good for us to come out with something brilliant.

How Easy To Being A Romantic

It's time to strike and yessssss, it’s me again and my controversial post about relationships. Well, you know that I love to talk about these stuffs and giving my opinions on the term relationship, but I really don’t know why some people like to say that I was the one involved.

You know, sometimes being in love is not really hard, the problem comes when you try to be romantic. Yes, many couples have different meanings of being romantic and girls especially *psstt.. don’t kill me just yet, read on…* This is because most girls read novels and most of them are love novels. It’s evident even when I was studying in high school, some of them bring these novels to school and read them. To me, I think it’s their fantasy trying to be swept off their feet.

I am now trying to tell you being romantic doesn’t need to be practiced. It should come natural. Well, but because not everyone is a natural, I can give you some pointers that I got from a website, which is an online dating site or from any other sites, but of course some of you would rather me telling you more from my personal point of view. Just a point I should point out, basically for guys, don’t get pressured at seeing what other people can do. Just be yourself and most importantly be a gentleman. DON’T go rehearsing Shakespeare poems to present when you can’t and do the extreme if you can’t afford it. It’ll be romantic to do it at least once, but by then you’ll be thinking of what other romantic stuffs to do, instead of being your natural self. If you don’t believe me, you just have to see for yourself.

If you’re just trying to be romantic to be in a relationship, you’re doing it all for the wrong purpose. This is what I call romance should not be taken lightly. Maybe due to my analysis, girls would love surprises from their boyfriends out of the blue, but constantly doing it, bores them. Well, not to say you should stop but it’s good to let them treasure the romantic feel for a longer time before the guy give them another romantic feel. Sometimes little stuffs, like buying flowers, that’s all it takes. Trust me, girls love flowers, even a single stalk sometimes can mean so much. *hint hint*

Well, basically this is just my personal opinion, well, you can give me more opinions and girls you can have your definition of romantic, maybe let the guys pick up a point or two. Well, we learn by doing this, so what say you all?

On Flowers and Beautiful Girls

On Flowers and Beautiful Girls

Hey ya'll!

So, when is a girl "sweet" and when is she "beautiful"?
Here's the scenario

You see this girl walking down the street. She's wearing a white dress and her hair hangs loosely about her head like a shiny halo. She is humming a happy song as she walks along. As she passes the gardens of her neighbours, she stops to sniff the flowers and smiles to herself. "What a beautiful day!" she says.

Okay now here's the question; Was she "sweet" or "beautiful" ?

Now to be completely honest, this question is not rhetorical. Not to me...nor to you because really we all have our own perceptions of "beauty" and "sweetness". Still, perhaps I should attempt at another analogy to make my point clear.

Let us take, flowers for example. A flower's beauty is usually defined by the composition of its petals and its colour. Flowers with 5 petals or less and are composed of only one colour are most often deemed "common" (jasmines etc.) while flowers which have an elaborate petal composition, usually painted with more than one colour or a shade of one colour are normally depicted as "beautiful" (orchids etc.)

Still, if you know flowers like I do, I suppose you know that most of the beautiful flowers do not have a fragrance! (there is a VERY simple reason to this; flowers that rely on colour to attract insects do not have any need for fragrance).

Flowers like Orchids with magnificent colours and elaborate petals are very aesthetically pleasing. There is something in the flow of the orchid's petals and its tone that create a rather exotic, and yet gracefully feminine posture (if you really love a woman! Give her an Orchid!) that is simply breathtakingly beautiful!

The beauty of an orchid in full blood is usually rather breathtaking

On the other hand, "common" flowers like Jasmines are really nothing to look at. With their simplye white colour and basic five-petal composition, jasmines are really nothing to gawp about. And yet, to close one's eyes and walk by a Jasmine bush, and let its fragrance sweep over yourself on a warm breeze...kinda gives the feeling like anyhting (even true love!) is possible!

The simple Jasmine perhaps boasts a fragrance most famous in the floral kingdom

Now if you will recap the instance of the Orchid and the Jamine, and try to put it into the context of a girl, perhaps it is not so difficult to see the difference between "sweetness" and "beauty" . The Orchid is beautiful and it pleases the EYES, while the Jasmine, forall its simplicity is aesthetically pleasing to the soul! Still you cannot help but notice that "beautiful" flowers, once dead, are often forgotten, whereas the fragrance of "sweet" flowers stay in one's mind for much longer.

Of course I am only using seperate flowers for illustrative purposes...to make the analogy all the more easier to understand.

It is indeed very possible for a girl to be BOTH beautiful and sweet. Though I must stress that only a natural rose (and not those genetically bred ones...much less the plastic ones) possess a fragrance. Get the picture?

~ Beauty is nothing more than short-lived Tyranny ~ Socrates

PEACE OUT

Why Women Cry

Why does a woman cry?

To express the love she carries inside,

Why does a woman weep?

To express the injustice she sees,

Why does she tear?

To express gratitude she feels inside,

Why does she sob?

To express the sadness she feels,

Why does she bawl?

To express frustration pent inside,

Why does she sob?

To express the joy she feels inside,

Why does she tear?

To express the hurt she feels,

Why does she weep?

To express the care she has for others,

Why does she cry?

To express how blssed she is that she can

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A little encouragement for my girlfriends who have it hard..

“Why are you crying?” he asked his mom.

“Because I’m a woman” she told him.

“I don’t understand,” he said.

His mom just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”

Later the little boy asked his father,

“Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?”

“All women cry for no reason,” was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God; when God got on the phone, the man said, “God, why do women cry so easily?”

God answered:

When I made woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and to take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

This same sensitivity helps her to make a child’s boo-boo feel better, and share in her teenager’s anxieties and fears.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults, and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.”

“You see my son,” said God, “the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.”

It’s a tear for humanity.